During the classical tantric massage that we offer, we don't concentrate on the intimate areas. This means that these areas are touched in order to activate sexual energy and carry it to the heart and higher chakras, but we don't do a separate massage to intimate areas. For women we don't make internal yoni massage - we do it during separate release and cleansing session.
Only in case of Kama Marma massage and Fire Snake massage there is focus on yoni and lingam.
Of course if you don't want the massagist to touch our intimate ares - this is fine, because your comfort, safeness and boundaries are the most important for us. Before the massage we ask you about your boundaries.